Yes. The dress code is part of the experience and helps keep the atmosphere cohesive. We don’t expect haute couture, but we do expect clear effort and alignment with the theme. If you arrive in everyday casual with no attempt to follow the brief, you may be refused entry.

If you’re unsure, you can email a photo or a quick description in advance and we’ll happily advise: hello@houseofkaos.co.uk . On the night, our team will use their discretion, but asking ahead is always safest.

Absolutely. Comfort, safety and access always come first. Flat shoes, mobility aids and any adjustments you need are welcome. We simply ask that, where possible, you style them in a way that still feels part of the world we’re creating.

Real weapons (including sharpened blades), replica firearms, offensive or discriminatory costumes, and anything that could cause harm or distress to other guests are not permitted. Large props that block sightlines or create trip hazards may also be refused.

We will always prioritise your comfort and access over aesthetics. If certain fabrics, layers or accessories are difficult for you, adapt the theme to what works for your body. If you’d like guidance, email us in advance and we’ll help you interpret the brief in a way that feels good for you.

You don’t need a whole new wardrobe – it’s more about styling than spending. Start with dark basics (black dress, shirt or trousers), add one dramatic element such as statement jewellery, lace gloves, a veil or cape, and finish with dark make‑up or nails. Creativity matters more than labels.

Yes, as long as your look fits the event’s tone (gothic, eerie, decadent, occult) and isn’t offensive or culturally appropriative. Please avoid real weapons and oversized props that could be unsafe or block other guests’ view.

Masks are welcome, especially at balls, but they must be removable for ID and safety checks. Avoid anything that fully blocks your vision or makes it hard to breathe. Our team may ask you to briefly remove your mask on arrival.

We love seductive, dramatic outfits, but there are limits. Genitals must be fully covered, sheer pieces should have opaque layers underneath, and we don’t allow explicit fetishwear or nudity. Aim for powerful and provocative, not unsafe or illegal.

Yes. Costumes that rely on race, religion, disability, gender identity or trauma as “the joke” are not permitted. Blackface and similar are never acceptable. If you’re unsure whether an idea is appropriate, please email us first and we’ll advise.

If the venue has suitable facilities, you’re welcome to change looks, as long as all outfits still follow the theme and safety rules. Please avoid bringing large suitcases – a small bag or cloakroom drop is ideal if available.

The dress code applies to everyone attending, not just the most enthusiastic member of the group. We recommend a minimum effort of all black, one statement accessory and a hint of dark make‑up. Guests who ignore the dress code may be turned away even if the rest of their party is dressed.

No. Our guidelines are about theme, not gender. You are welcome to choose whatever silhouette and styling makes you feel most powerful and authentic, regardless of how you identify.

Cloakroom availability depends on the venue and will be noted on the individual event listing where possible. If a cloakroom is not guaranteed, we recommend layering in a way that’s easy to manage and bringing only what you can comfortably carry.

Subtle logos are fine, but large sports or streetwear branding can break the atmosphere and is discouraged, especially at formal events like the Vampire Ball. If in doubt, choose pieces where logos are minimal or hidden.