Dress Code & FAQ :: House of Kaos

Dress Code & Behaviour

Dressing to slay comes with responsibilities. These answers cover what to wear, what to expect on the night and how we keep House of Kaos safe, respectful and welcoming for everyone.

Dress Code

Themes not gender. Dark palettes, dramatic silhouettes and outfits that feel part of the story.

Behaviour

Costumes never override consent. We put safety, respect and care for our community first.

Accessibility

Mobility aids, flat shoes and sensory adaptations are always welcome. We’ll help the brief fit you.

Tickets & Refunds

What happens if plans change, or you’re no longer able to join the chaos.

Dress Code

Our dress code is about world‑building, not policing. We care about mood, silhouette and story.

Is the dress code really mandatory?

Yes — it’s how we build the world together. When you step into one of our feasts or balls, you’re not just buying a ticket, you’re joining the cast. Your outfit helps turn a room into a ritual, a dining hall into a crypt, a dancefloor into a storm at sea.

That said, comfort and access come first. If you have specific needs, email us at sarah@houseofkaos.co.uk and we’ll help you find a version of the brief that works for you.

What happens if I’m not sure my outfit is right?

Send us a photo or description and we’ll happily sanity‑check it. We care about story and silhouette, not price tags or designer labels. If it feels like you belong in the scene, you’re probably on track.

Are there any items that are never allowed?

Yes. To keep the space safe and welcoming, please leave the following at home:

  • Hate symbols, discriminatory imagery or violent slogans.
  • Real weapons or realistic replica firearms of any kind.
  • Oversized props that block sightlines or create trip hazards.

On the Night

What to expect once you step through the doors of the realm.

What time should I arrive and how long does the event last?

Exact timings will be on your ticket, but as a guide: doors usually open around an hour before the feast begins. Arriving in that window gives you time to check in, drink in the scenery and settle at your table.

Most events last between three and four hours from doors to final toast.

What happens if I’m running late?

If you’re delayed, we’ll seat you at the next natural break in the story so we don’t disrupt the ritual. You may miss an opening moment, but we’ll bring you up to speed as best we can.

Is there a cloakroom? Can I leave and re‑enter?

Most venues provide a cloakroom or safe area for coats, capes and umbrellas; full details are in your pre‑event email. Smoking and fresh‑air breaks are usually possible — just follow staff directions for re‑entry so we can keep everyone safe.

Food & Drink

Feasts are central to the chaos. Here’s how menus, allergies and drinks work.

What’s included in my ticket?

In most cases your ticket includes your seat at the feast, the full set menu for the night and the core immersive experience. Some drinks and upgrades may be extra — check your specific event page for details.

Can you accommodate dietary requirements and allergies?

We will always do our best. Let us know your needs when you book, or email sarah@houseofkaos.co.uk with your booking reference at least a few days before your event so we can speak to the kitchen.

Is there a non‑alcoholic option?

Yes. We want our realm to be just as magical if you don’t drink. Most of our cocktails have non‑alcoholic counterparts and there are always soft options at the bar.

Accessibility

All bodies, genders and expressions are welcome in our world. Access comes before aesthetics.

Can I wear flat shoes or mobility aids?

Always. Mobility aids, flat footwear and sensory adaptations are never in conflict with our dress code. Your safety and comfort come first, and we can help you style any aids into the look if you’d like.

Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Accessibility varies by venue, but wherever possible we work with spaces that offer step‑free access and accessible toilets. Check your event page for specific notes, or email us and we’ll talk you through the layout.

What kind of sensory environment should I expect?

Expect music, crowd noise, theatrical lighting and occasional effects such as haze or flashes. If you have sensory needs, let us know in advance so we can suggest the best seating area or dial back elements where possible.

I have specific access needs — how flexible is the experience?

Very. Our guidelines are about theme, not gender or body shape. Fabrics, layers and accessories can always be adapted for temperature, movement or sensory comfort. Reach out to sarah@houseofkaos.co.uk with your needs and booking reference and we’ll plan with you.

Age Limits & Content Warnings

Our world leans into horror, ritual and adult themes. Here’s what that means in practice.

Is there an age restriction?

Unless otherwise stated, House of Kaos events are 18+ due to the themes, language and presence of alcohol. If a specific event allows younger guests, this will be clearly marked on the ticketing page.

How intense are the horror and adult themes?

Expect stylised horror, occult imagery and occasionally blood, menace and innuendo, but not real violence. If you are worried about specific triggers, email sarah@houseofkaos.co.uk before booking and we can talk you through the tone of your chosen event.

Tickets & Refunds

The practical magic: how bookings, transfers and changes work.

Can I transfer my ticket to someone else?

In most cases, yes. If you can no longer attend, email us with your booking reference and the new guest’s name. We’ll let you know what’s possible for your specific event.

What is your refund policy?

Refund terms can vary between events and venues, so always check the ticketing page. As a rule, we’ll be as flexible as we can while still paying our performers, crew and partners fairly.

What happens if House of Kaos has to cancel or reschedule?

If we have to change plans due to circumstances beyond our control, we’ll contact you as soon as possible with options such as new dates, credit or refund depending on the situation.

First‑Timer Nerves

New to immersive events? You’re exactly who we’re building this world for.

I’ve never done anything like this before — will I feel out of place?

Not at all. Most of our guests are first‑timers or occasional adventurers. You don’t need acting skills or improv experience; you just need a willingness to dress up, lean into the atmosphere and respect the people around you.

Our team and performers are there to guide you. If you’re ever unsure, ask a member of staff and we’ll help you find your footing in the chaos.